Gita for Life
Questions of daily life
Overthinking, anger, confusion, stress at work, difficult relationships, the search for meaning: the questions we face every day, answered from the Bhagavad-gītā As It Is. Each answer gives the verses, a passage of Śrīla Prabhupāda’s purport and his lectures on those verses.
Mind and thoughts
How can I control my mind?
If your mind feels too strong for you, you are in good company: Arjuna told Kṛṣṇa that controlling it seemed harder than controlling the wind 6.34. Kṛṣṇa does not deny the difficulty, but He says it is possible by constant practice and detachment 6.35. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that for us today this practice is devotional service, and its first step is hearing about Kṛṣṇa.
For the mind is restless, turbulent, obstinate and very strong, O Kṛṣṇa, and to subdue it is, it seems to me, more difficult than controlling the wind.
The Blessed Lord said: O mighty-armed son of Kuntī, it is undoubtedly very difficult to curb the restless mind, but it is possible by constant practice and by detachment.
Try this todayChoose a fixed ten minutes today to read a page of the Gītā or hear a talk about Kṛṣṇa. Keep the same time tomorrow; practice grows by repeating.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 6.35
The difficulty of controlling the obstinate mind, as expressed by Arjuna, is accepted by the Personality of Godhead. But at the same time He suggests that by practice and detachment it is possible. What is that practice? In the present age no one can observe strict rules and regulations, such as placing oneself in a sacred place, focusing the mind on the Supersoul, restraining the senses and mind, observing celibacy, remaining alone, etc. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 6.32–40 1966-09-16 · New York
How do I stop overthinking and worrying about the future?
Much overthinking is living in results that have not come yet. Kṛṣṇa draws a clear line: the work is in your hands, the fruits are not, and you are not the cause of the results 2.47. So do today’s duty fully, without giving it up, and leave the rest to Him. He asks us to take shelter of Him alone, and tells us not to fear 18.66.
You have a right to perform your prescribed duty, but you are not entitled to the fruits of action. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, and never be attached to not doing your duty.
Abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reaction. Do not fear.
Try this todayWhen a worry about tomorrow comes, write down one thing you can do about it today. Do that one thing, then tell Kṛṣṇa, “The rest is in Your hands.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.47
There are three considerations here: prescribed duties, capricious work, and inaction. Prescribed duties refer to activities performed while one is in the modes of material nature. Capricious work means actions without the sanction of authority, and inaction means not performing one's prescribed duties. The Lord advised that Arjuna not be inactive, but that he perform his prescribed duty without being attached to the result. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.46–47 1966-03-28 · New York
How can I stay calm when things go wrong?
Kṛṣṇa compares happiness and distress to winter and summer: they come and go, and we must learn to tolerate them without being disturbed 2.14. A hard day is a season, not your whole life. Śrīla Prabhupāda gives the example of bathing early even in the cold month of Māgha: we keep doing our duty in spite of discomfort. That is how the steady mind Kṛṣṇa describes is formed 2.56.
O son of Kuntī, the nonpermanent appearance of happiness and distress, and their disappearance in due course, are like the appearance and disappearance of winter and summer seasons. They arise from sense perception, O scion of Bharata, and one must learn to tolerate them without being disturbed.
One who is not disturbed in spite of the threefold miseries, who is not elated when there is happiness, and who is free from attachment, fear and anger, is called a sage of steady mind.
Try this todayWhen something goes wrong today, pause and tell yourself, “This is a season; it will pass.” Then calmly do the next small duty in front of you.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.14
In the proper discharge of duty, one has to learn to tolerate nonpermanent appearances and disappearances of happiness and distress. According to Vedic injunction, one has to take his bath early in the morning even during the month of Māgha (January-February). It is very cold at that time, but in spite of that a man who abides by the religious principles does not hesitate to take his bath. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.13-17 1968-11-29 · Los Angeles
My mind keeps wandering. How can I focus?
A wandering mind does not mean you have failed; flickering and unsteadiness are simply the mind’s nature. Kṛṣṇa’s instruction is simple and patient: from whatever and wherever it wanders, bring it back under the control of the self 6.26. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that we must control the mind instead of being controlled by it, and that serving Kṛṣṇa with the senses brings them fully under control.
From whatever and wherever the mind wanders due to its flickering and unsteady nature, one must certainly withdraw it and bring it back under the control of the Self.
Try this todayBefore you study or work today, keep your phone in another room and offer a short prayer to Kṛṣṇa. Each time the mind drifts, gently bring it back.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 6.26
The nature of the mind is flickering and unsteady. But a self-realized yogī has to control the mind; the mind should not control him. One who controls the mind (and therefore the senses as well) is called gosvāmī, or svāmī, and one who is controlled by the mind is called godāsa, or the servant of the senses. A gosvāmī knows the standard of sense happiness. In transcendental sense happiness, the senses are engaged in the service of Hṛṣīkeśa or the supreme owner of the senses—Kṛṣṇa. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 6.21–27 1966-09-14 · New York
Feelings
How can I overcome anger and irritation?
Kṛṣṇa traces anger to its root: dwelling on what we want breeds attachment, attachment breeds desire, and from desire comes anger 2.62. Anger then confuses memory and takes away intelligence, and we fall down 2.63. So He calls lust, anger and greed gates to degradation that a sane person gives up 16.21. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that the senses need real engagement, and the way out is Kṛṣṇa consciousness.
While contemplating the objects of the senses, a person develops attachment for them, and from such attachment lust develops, and from lust anger arises.
From anger, delusion arises, and from delusion bewilderment of memory. When memory is bewildered, intelligence is lost, and when intelligence is lost, one falls down again into the material pool.
There are three gates leading to this hell—lust, anger, and greed. Every sane man should give these up, for they lead to the degradation of the soul.
Try this todayWhen irritation rises today, stay silent for a minute and notice what you were wanting that you didn’t get. Then chant Hare Kṛṣṇa softly before you reply.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.62
One who is not Kṛṣṇa conscious is subjected to material desires while contemplating the objects of senses. The senses require real engagements, and if they are not engaged in the transcendental loving service of the Lord, they will certainly seek engagement in the service of materialism. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.59–69 1966-04-18 · New York
How can I give up lust and bad habits?
Kṛṣṇa calls lust the all-devouring enemy that later turns into anger 3.37. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that lust is really our eternal love for Kṛṣṇa, changed by contact with matter as milk is changed by sour tamarind. Simply keeping away from a habit leaves its taste inside; it falls away when we experience a higher taste 2.59. So don’t only fight: give your heart something better.
The Blessed Lord said: It is lust only, Arjuna, which is born of contact with the material modes of passion and later transformed into wrath, and which is the all-devouring, sinful enemy of this world.
The embodied soul may be restricted from sense enjoyment, though the taste for sense objects remains. But, ceasing such engagements by experiencing a higher taste, he is fixed in consciousness.
Try this todayNotice when your habit usually pulls at you. Today, fill that hour with something higher: listening to kīrtana, a walk while chanting, or reading about Kṛṣṇa.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 3.37
When a living entity comes in contact with the material creation, his eternal love for Kṛṣṇa is transformed into lust, in association with the mode of passion. Or, in other words, the sense of love of God becomes transformed into lust, as milk in contact with sour tamarind is transformed into yogurt. Then again, when lust is unsatisfied, it turns into wrath; wrath is transformed into illusion, and illusion continues the material existence. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 3.31–43 1969-01-01 · Los Angeles
How do I overcome fear?
Near the end of the Gītā, Kṛṣṇa asks us to surrender to Him, promises to free us from all sinful reactions, and tells us not to fear 18.66. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that we can be confident Kṛṣṇa will protect us in every circumstance. And many before us, taking refuge in Him and absorbed in Him, became free from attachment, fear and anger 4.10.
Abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Me. I shall deliver you from all sinful reaction. Do not fear.
Being freed from attachment, fear and anger, being fully absorbed in Me and taking refuge in Me, many, many persons in the past became purified by knowledge of Me—and thus they all attained transcendental love for Me.
Try this todayTonight, name your biggest fear honestly before Kṛṣṇa, as you would to a trusted friend. Then say, “I am Yours; please protect me,” and rest.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 18.66
Anything that does not lead to the perfectional stage of Kṛṣṇa consciousness should be avoided. One should be confident that in all circumstances Kṛṣṇa will protect him from all difficulties. There is no need of thinking how one should keep the body and soul together. Kṛṣṇa will see to that. One should always think himself helpless and should consider Kṛṣṇa the only basis for his progress in life. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 4.9–11 1966-07-20 · New York
What should I do when I feel low and weak?
Even the great hero Arjuna once lost heart. Kṛṣṇa did not leave him there; He told him that such weakness of heart did not suit him, and asked him to rise 2.3. Kṛṣṇa also teaches that the mind can be our friend or our enemy, so we should use it to lift ourselves up, never to put ourselves down 6.5. You too can rise, one small step at a time.
A man must elevate himself by his own mind, not degrade himself. The mind is the friend of the conditioned soul, and his enemy as well.
O son of Pṛthā, do not yield to this degrading impotence. It does not become you. Give up such petty weakness of heart and arise, O chastiser of the enemy.
Try this todayToday, speak to yourself as a kind friend would: write down one good thing you did, and one small step for tomorrow. If the heaviness stays, tell someone you trust.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 6.5
The word ātmā denotes body, mind and soul-depending upon different circumstances. In the yoga system, the mind and the conditioned soul are especially important. Since the mind is the central point of yoga practice, ātmā refers here to the mind. The purpose of the yoga system is to control the mind and to draw it away from attachment to sense objects. It is stressed herein that the mind must be so trained that it can deliver the conditioned soul from the mire of nescience. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 6.4–12 1966-09-05 · New York
How can I bear the death of someone I love?
Your sorrow is natural; it shows your love. Kṛṣṇa gives a truth to hold on to: the one you love is a soul, not only a body. As the soul passes from childhood to youth to old age, at death it passes into another body 2.13. Death comes to all who are born, and birth follows death 2.27. The person you love has not ceased to exist.
For one who has taken his birth, death is certain; and for one who is dead, birth is certain. Therefore, in the unavoidable discharge of your duty, you should not lament.
As the embodied soul continually passes, in this body, from boyhood to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at death. The self-realized soul is not bewildered by such a change.
Try this todayToday, sit quietly and remember one kindness of the person you lost. Pray to Kṛṣṇa for them on their journey, and let your tears come if they need to.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.27
One has to take birth according to one's activities of life. And, after finishing one term of activities, one has to die to take birth for the next. In this way the cycle of birth and death is revolving, one after the other without liberation. This cycle of birth and death does not, however, support unnecessary murder, slaughter and war. But at the same time, violence and war are inevitable factors in human society for keeping law and order.
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.27-38 1968-12-11 · Los Angeles
Work, decisions and management
I am confused about what to do. Where do I find clear guidance?
Confusion is where the Gītā itself begins. Arjuna admitted he no longer knew his duty, and humbly asked Kṛṣṇa to tell him clearly what was best 2.7. Kṛṣṇa then teaches us to learn the truth from a self-realized spiritual master, by asking sincerely and serving him 4.34. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that life’s perplexities come uninvited, like a forest fire, so we need such guidance.
Now I am confused about my duty and have lost all composure because of weakness. In this condition I am asking You to tell me clearly what is best for me. Now I am Your disciple, and a soul surrendered unto You. Please instruct me.
Just try to learn the truth by approaching a spiritual master. Inquire from him submissively and render service unto him. The self-realized soul can impart knowledge unto you because he has seen the truth.
Try this todayWrite your confusion down as one clear question. Pray to Kṛṣṇa for guidance, then humbly put the question to a senior devotee who lives by the Gītā.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.7
By nature's own way the complete system of material activities is a source of perplexity for everyone. In every step there is perplexity, and therefore it behooves one to approach a bona fide spiritual master who can give one proper guidance for executing the purpose of life. All Vedic literatures advise us to approach a bona fide spiritual master to get free from the perplexities of life which happen without our desire. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.7–11 1966-03-02 · New York
How do I find the right work for me?
Kṛṣṇa’s advice is reassuring: it is better to do your own work, even imperfectly, than to do someone else’s perfectly 18.47, for following another’s path is dangerous 3.35. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that our duties suit our own nature and condition, and that we should do them in Kṛṣṇa consciousness rather than imitate others. So look honestly at your own nature, not at what others admire.
It is far better to discharge one's prescribed duties, even though they may be faulty, than another's duties. Destruction in the course of performing one's own duty is better than engaging in another's duties, for to follow another's path is dangerous.
It is better to engage in one's own occupation, even though one may perform it imperfectly, than to accept another's occupation and perform it perfectly. Prescribed duties, according to one's nature, are never affected by sinful reactions.
Try this todayWrite down three kinds of work you do well and naturally. Ask a wise elder which suits your nature, and offer your choice to Kṛṣṇa.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 3.35
One should therefore discharge his prescribed duties in full Kṛṣṇa consciousness rather than those prescribed for others. Prescribed duties complement one's psychophysical condition, under the spell of the modes of material nature. Spiritual duties are as ordered by the spiritual master, for the transcendental service of Kṛṣṇa. But both materially or spiritually, one should stick to his prescribed duties even up to death, rather than imitate another's prescribed duties. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 3.31–43 1969-01-01 · Los Angeles
How should I handle success and failure?
Kṛṣṇa asks us to do our duty fully while giving up attachment to success or failure; He calls this evenness of mind yoga 2.48. He told Arjuna to act without weighing gain and loss, victory and defeat 2.38. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that when we act as Kṛṣṇa directs, the results are His concern. Then success need not make us proud, nor failure crush us.
Be steadfast in yoga, O Arjuna. Perform your duty and abandon all attachment to success or failure. Such evenness of mind is called yoga.
Do thou fight for the sake of fighting, without considering happiness or distress, loss or gain, victory or defeat—and, by so doing, you shall never incur sin.
Try this todayAfter your next result, good or bad, say “Thank You, Kṛṣṇa,” then ask yourself only one question: what can I learn for next time?
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.48
Kṛṣṇa tells Arjuna that he should act in yoga. And what is that yoga? Yoga means to concentrate the mind upon the Supreme by controlling the ever-disturbing senses. And who is the Supreme? The Supreme is the Lord. And because He Himself is telling Arjuna to fight, Arjuna has nothing to do with the results of the fight. Gain or victory are Kṛṣṇa's concern; Arjuna is simply advised to act according to the dictation of Kṛṣṇa. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.48–49 1966-04-01 · New York
How can I work hard without stress?
Stress grows when we carry everything alone. Kṛṣṇa asks us to work fully, free from ego and laziness, but offering our work to Him with our mind on Him 3.30. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that we cannot be happy working independently of Kṛṣṇa; our duties are done depending on Him. And one who offers the results to God is untouched by sinful reaction, like a lotus leaf on water 5.10.
One who performs his duty without attachment, surrendering the results unto the Supreme God, is not affected by sinful action, as the lotus leaf is untouched by water.
Therefore, O Arjuna, surrendering all your works unto Me, with mind intent on Me, and without desire for gain and free from egoism and lethargy, fight.
Try this todayBefore starting work today, pause and offer it: “Kṛṣṇa, I’ll do my best; the result is Yours.” Repeat it whenever the pressure rises.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 3.30
This verse clearly indicates the purpose of the Bhagavad-gītā. The Lord instructs that one has to become fully Kṛṣṇa conscious to discharge duties, as if in military discipline. Such an injunction may make things a little difficult; nevertheless duties must be carried out, with dependence on Kṛṣṇa, because that is the constitutional position of the living entity. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 5.7–13 1966-08-26 · New York
How do I balance my work and my spiritual life?
You don’t have to leave your work to be spiritual. Kṛṣṇa asks that whatever we do, eat, offer or give away, and any austerity we perform, be done as an offering to Him 9.27. Then work itself becomes worship: worshipping the Lord through our own duty, we can reach perfection 18.46. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that we should shape our life so that we never forget Kṛṣṇa in any circumstance.
O son of Kuntī, all that you do, all that you eat, all that you offer and give away, as well as all austerities that you may perform, should be done as an offering unto Me.
By worship of the Lord, who is the source of all beings and who is all-pervading, man can, in the performance of his own duty, attain perfection.
Try this todayToday, before your first meal and your first task, offer each to Kṛṣṇa in your heart with a simple “This is for You.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 9.27
Thus, it is the duty of everyone to mold his life in such a way that he will not forget Kṛṣṇa in any circumstance. Everyone has to work for maintenance of his body and soul together, and Kṛṣṇa recommends herein that one should work for Him. Everyone has to eat something to live; therefore he should accept the remnants of foodstuffs offered to Kṛṣṇa. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 9.26–27 1966-12-16 · New York
How should I manage eating, sleeping and my daily routine?
The Gītā is very practical here. Kṛṣṇa says one cannot become a yogī by eating too much or too little, or by sleeping too much or too little 6.16. One who keeps balance in eating, sleeping, work and recreation can, through yoga, reduce all material pains 6.17. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that eating becomes regulated when we take prasādam, food first offered to Kṛṣṇa.
He who is temperate in his habits of eating, sleeping, working and recreation can mitigate all material pains by practicing the yoga system.
There is no possibility of one's becoming a yogī, O Arjuna, if one eats too much, or eats too little, sleeps too much or does not sleep enough.
Try this todayChoose a fixed bedtime and rising time for this week, and keep them. Before meals, offer your vegetarian food to Kṛṣṇa with a short prayer.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 6.17
Extravagance in the matter of eating, sleeping, defending and mating-which are demands of the body-can block advancement in the practice of yoga. As far as eating is concerned, it can be regulated only when one is practiced to take and accept prasādam, sanctified food. Lord Kṛṣṇa is offered, according to the Bhagavad-gītā [[bg/9/26|(Bg. 9.26)]], vegetables, flowers, fruits, grains, milk, etc. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 6.11–21 1966-09-07 · New York
How can I lead others well?
People follow what a leader does far more than what he says. Kṛṣṇa explains that whatever a great person does, others follow, and the standard he sets, the world pursues 3.21. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that a leader teaches by his own behaviour; as Lord Caitanya said, a teacher should behave properly before he begins teaching, and he follows the scriptures rather than making up his own rules.
Whatever action is performed by a great man, common men follow in his footsteps. And whatever standards he sets by exemplary acts, all the world pursues.
Try this todayPick one habit you want your team, family or students to have. Start practising it yourself this week, before you say a word about it.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 3.21
People in general always require a leader who can teach the public by practical behavior. A leader cannot teach the public to stop smoking if he himself smokes. Lord Caitanya said that a teacher should behave properly even before he begins teaching. One who teaches in that way is called ācārya, or the ideal teacher. Therefore, a teacher must follow the principles of śāśtra (scripture) to reach the common man. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 3.21–25 1966-05-30 · New York
Relationships
How should I treat other people?
Kṛṣṇa describes the person dear to Him: never envious, a kind friend to every living being, free from false ego 12.13. The wise, by true knowledge, look beyond the body and see a learned brāhmaṇa, a cow, an elephant, a dog and an outcaste with equal vision 5.18. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that such a devotee does not even become his enemy’s enemy.
One who is not envious but who is a kind friend to all living entities, who does not think himself a proprietor, who is free from false ego and equal both in happiness and distress, who is always satisfied and engaged in devotional service with determination and whose mind and intelligence are in agreement with Me—he is very dear to Me.
The humble sage, by virtue of true knowledge, sees with equal vision a learned and gentle brāhmaṇa, a cow, an elephant, a dog and a dog-eater [outcaste] .
Try this todayToday, be kind to one person you usually overlook, like the watchman, the maid or the delivery boy. Greet them by name and thank them.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 12.13–14
Coming again to the point of pure devotional service, the Lord is describing the transcendental qualifications of a pure devotee in these two verses. A pure devotee is never disturbed in any circumstances. Nor is he envious of anyone. Nor does a devotee become his enemy's enemy; he thinks that one is acting as his enemy due to his own past misdeeds. Thus it is better to suffer than to protest. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 12.13–14 1974-05-12
How do I deal with people who criticise or hurt me?
Praise and blame both come in life. Kṛṣṇa says the devotee dear to Him stays equal in honour and dishonour, fame and infamy, and towards friends and enemies 12.18. The advanced person sees even the envious and the well-wisher with an equal mind 6.9. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that being praised one day and defamed the next is simply the nature of society, and the devotee stays patient.
One who is equal to friends and enemies, who is equiposed in honor and dishonor, heat and cold, happiness and distress, fame and infamy, who is always free from contamination, always silent and satisfied with anything, who doesn't care for any residence, who is fixed in knowledge and engaged in devotional service, is very dear to Me.
A person is said to be still further advanced when he regards all—the honest well-wisher, friends and enemies, the envious, the pious, the sinner and those who are indifferent and impartial—with an equal mind.
Try this todayThe next time someone criticises you, wait before replying. Ask, “Is any of this true?” Learn from what is, and let the rest go without bitterness.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 12.18–19
A devotee is always free from all bad association. Sometimes one is praised and sometimes one is defamed; that is the nature of human society. But a devotee is always transcendental to artificial fame and infamy, distress or happiness. He is very patient. He does not speak of anything but the topics about Kṛṣṇa; therefore he is called silent. Silent does not mean that one should not speak; silent means that one should not speak nonsense. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 6.4–12 1966-09-05 · New York
How do I love my family without being bound by attachment?
Kṛṣṇa counts nonattachment to children, wife and home, and evenness in pleasant and unpleasant times, as part of real knowledge 13.8. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that this does not mean having no feeling for them: they are natural objects of affection. We should only not be attached when it stands in the way of spiritual progress, and Kṛṣṇa consciousness is the best way to make a home happy.
Humility, pridelessness, nonviolence, tolerance, simplicity, approaching a bona fide spiritual master, cleanliness, steadiness and self-control; renunciation of the objects of sense gratification, absence of false ego, the perception of the evil of birth, death, old age and disease; nonattachment to children, wife, home and the rest, and evenmindedness amid pleasant and unpleasant events; constant and unalloyed devotion to Me, resorting to solitary places, detachment from the general mass of people; accepting the importance of self-realization, and philosophical search for the Absolute Truth—all these I thus declare to be knowledge, and what is contrary to these is ignorance.
Try this todayThis week, sit together as a family for ten minutes to chant Hare Kṛṣṇa or read one Gītā verse, then share a meal offered to Kṛṣṇa.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 13.8–12
As for detachment from children, wife and home, it is not meant that one should have no feeling for these. They are natural objects of affection, but when they are not favorable to spiritual progress, then one should not be attached to them. The best process for making the home pleasant is Kṛṣṇa consciousness. If one is in full Kṛṣṇa consciousness, he can make his home very happy because this process of Kṛṣṇa consciousness is very easy. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 13.8–12 1973-09-30
Purpose and spiritual life
How can I become a good person?
Kṛṣṇa gives a clear picture of a good person: fearless, pure, generous, self-controlled, truthful, free from anger, compassionate, forgiving, and free from envy and the craving for honour 16.1. He calls qualities like humility, tolerance and simplicity real knowledge 13.8. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that humility means not being eager for honour from others, because one knows one is not this body.
The Blessed Lord said: Fearlessness, purification of one's existence, cultivation of spiritual knowledge, charity, self-control, performance of sacrifice, study of the Vedas, austerity and simplicity; nonviolence, truthfulness, freedom from anger; renunciation, tranquility, aversion to faultfinding, compassion and freedom from covetousness; gentleness, modesty and steady determination; vigor, forgiveness, fortitude, cleanliness, freedom from envy and the passion for honor—these transcendental qualities, O son of Bharata, belong to godly men endowed with divine nature.
Humility, pridelessness, nonviolence, tolerance, simplicity, approaching a bona fide spiritual master, cleanliness, steadiness and self-control; renunciation of the objects of sense gratification, absence of false ego, the perception of the evil of birth, death, old age and disease; nonattachment to children, wife, home and the rest, and evenmindedness amid pleasant and unpleasant events; constant and unalloyed devotion to Me, resorting to solitary places, detachment from the general mass of people; accepting the importance of self-realization, and philosophical search for the Absolute Truth—all these I thus declare to be knowledge, and what is contrary to these is ignorance.
Try this todayFrom Kṛṣṇa’s list, choose just one quality you lack, such as forgiveness or not finding fault. Practise it all week in one relationship.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 13.8–12
As for the knowledge outlined here, the items may be analyzed as follows: Humility means that one should not be anxious to have the satisfaction of being honored by others. The material conception of life makes us very eager to receive honor from others, but from the point of view of a man in perfect knowledge—who knows that he is not this body—anything, honor or dishonor, pertaining to this body is useless. One should not be hankering after this material deception. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
Where can I find real happiness?
Real happiness is found within: the self-realized person, absorbed in the Supreme, enjoys unlimited happiness 5.21. Pleasures that come from the senses have a beginning and an end, and the wise do not delight in them 5.22. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that sense pleasures are temporary because the body itself is temporary, and one who knows spiritual joy has no interest in such false pleasure.
Such a liberated person is not attracted to material sense pleasure or external objects but is always in trance, enjoying the pleasure within. In this way the self-realized person enjoys unlimited happiness, for he concentrates on the Supreme.
An intelligent person does not take part in the sources of misery, which are due to contact with the material senses. O son of Kuntī, such pleasures have a beginning and an end, and so the wise man does not delight in them.
Try this todayTonight, notice one pleasure from today that is already gone. Then give five quiet minutes to chanting Hare Kṛṣṇa, seeking joy within instead of outside.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 5.22
Material sense pleasures are due to the contact of the material senses, which are all temporary because the body itself is temporary. A liberated soul is not interested in anything which is temporary. Knowing well the joys of transcendental pleasures, how can a liberated soul agree to enjoy false pleasure? In the Padma Purāṇa it is said:
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 5.14-22 1966-08-29 · New York
Who am I?
You are not your body; you are the soul living in it. Your body has grown from a child’s to an adult’s, yet you are the same person, and at death the soul passes into another body 2.13. The soul is never born and never dies 2.20. And you belong to Kṛṣṇa: every soul is His eternal part, now struggling with the mind and senses 15.7.
As the embodied soul continually passes, in this body, from boyhood to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at death. The self-realized soul is not bewildered by such a change.
For the soul there is never birth nor death. Nor, having once been, does he ever cease to be. He is unborn, eternal, ever-existing, undying and primeval. He is not slain when the body is slain.
The living entities in this conditioned world are My eternal, fragmental parts. Due to conditioned life, they are struggling very hard with the six senses, which include the mind.
Try this todayLook at a childhood photo of yourself. Everything in the body has changed, yet you are still you. Spend a minute thinking: “I am a soul, part of Kṛṣṇa.”
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 2.13
Since every living entity is an individual soul, each is changing his body every moment, manifesting sometimes as a child, sometimes as a youth, and sometimes as an old man. Yet the same spirit soul is there and does not undergo any change. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 2.13 1966-03-11 · New York
What is the purpose of my life?
The purpose of life is to become Kṛṣṇa’s devotee and return to Him. He asks us to always think of Him, worship Him and offer Him our respects, and promises that we will come to Him 18.65. Those who reach Him never return to this temporary world full of misery 8.15. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that we should arrange our daily life so that everything we do is connected with Kṛṣṇa.
Always think of Me and become My devotee. Worship Me and offer your homage unto Me. Thus you will come to Me without fail. I promise you this because you are My very dear friend.
After attaining Me, the great souls, who are yogīs in devotion, never return to this temporary world, which is full of miseries, because they have attained the highest perfection.
Try this todayPick one ordinary thing you do daily, such as cooking, commuting or studying, and connect it to Kṛṣṇa today: offer it to Him, or chant while you do it.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 18.65
The most confidential part of knowledge is that one should become a pure devotee of Kṛṣṇa and always think of Him and act for Him. One should not become an official meditator. Life should be so molded that one will always have the chance to think of Kṛṣṇa. One should always act in such a way that all his daily activities are in connection with Kṛṣṇa. He should arrange his life in such a way that throughout the twenty-four hours he cannot but think of Kṛṣṇa. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 8.14–15 1966-10-28 · New York
Does God really care for me?
Yes. Kṛṣṇa is equal to everyone and envies no one, yet He says that whoever serves Him with devotion is His friend, and He is their friend too 9.29. For those who worship Him with devotion, He Himself carries what they lack and preserves what they have 9.22. His care is personal, the care of a friend, and you can turn to Him today.
But those who worship Me with devotion, meditating on My transcendental form—to them I carry what they lack and preserve what they have.
I envy no one, nor am I partial to anyone. I am equal to all. But whoever renders service unto Me in devotion is a friend, is in Me, and I am also a friend to him.
Try this todayTonight, talk to Kṛṣṇa as you would to a close friend: thank Him for one thing He has given you, and tell Him honestly what you need.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 9.22
One who is unable to live for a moment without Kṛṣṇa consciousness cannot but think of Kṛṣṇa twenty-four hours, being engaged in devotional service by hearing, chanting, remembering, offering prayers, worshiping, serving the lotus feet of the Lord, rendering other services, cultivating friendship and surrendering fully to the Lord. Such activities are all auspicious and full of spiritual potencies; indeed, they make the devotee perfect in self-realization. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 9.20–22 1966-12-07 · New York
How can I begin spiritual life today?
You can begin today, with whatever you have. Kṛṣṇa says He accepts even a leaf, a flower, a fruit or water when it is offered with love and devotion 9.26. Śrīla Prabhupāda explains that one who loves Kṛṣṇa offers what He wants and avoids what He has not asked for. Then fix your mind on Him, bow to Him and worship Him; you will surely come to Him 9.34.
If one offers Me with love and devotion a leaf, a flower, fruit or water, I will accept it.
Engage your mind always in thinking of Me, offer obeisances and worship Me. Being completely absorbed in Me, surely you will come to Me.
Try this todayToday, place a flower or a glass of water before a picture of Kṛṣṇa, offer it with a simple prayer, and chant Hare Kṛṣṇa for five minutes.
Śrīla Prabhupāda explains
From the purport to 9.26
Here Lord Kṛṣṇa, having established that He is the only enjoyer, the primeval Lord, and the real object of all sacrificial offerings, reveals what types of sacrifices He desires to be offered. If one wishes to engage in devotional service to the Supreme in order to be purified and to reach the goal of life—the transcendental loving service of God—then he should find out what the Lord desires of him. …
Śrīla Prabhupāda’s lectures on these verses
- Bhagavad-gītā 9.24–26 1966-12-14 · New York
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